all you need is love
and a great therapist
Throw in some validation, realistic expectations and connection through healthy and effective conflict management, and BAM you are on your way to a more enjoyable and intentional marriage.
Beth Wylie Therapy
How I Work
In my role as your therapist, whether we're meeting face-to-face or virtually, I serve as your steadfast advocate. Our therapeutic journey begins by clearly defining your therapy objectives, and from there, we embark on the transformative work ahead. My primary role is to provide unwavering support as you navigate the discomfort that often accompanies personal growth and change. This is why seeking guidance from a trained and licensed therapist is paramount.
I will assist you in identifying the fears that may be obstructing your path and stand by your side as you confront these fears head-on. Naturally, I'll be there to share in your celebrations or provide support during moments of grief as you navigate the outcomes of your efforts. Through this process, you'll discover that facing your fears doesn't result in immediate rainbows and sunshine. However, the anxiety and worry that these fears once provoked will diminish, and you'll realize that the world remains intact (aside from the pressing issue of climate change, of course).
For couples seeking an in-person experience, I offer intensive therapy sessions at my office in Upcountry Maui. These intensives span one week, with Wednesdays designated as a day for reflection and enjoying the beauty of this remarkable island we fondly call Maui Nui.
If you're uncertain about where to begin, I recommend considering my online course for couples. It serves as an excellent introduction to the therapeutic process with me, equipping you with foundational language and tools to begin enhancing your partnership. You can explore this course further and make a purchase by clicking on this link.
couples therapy intensives
Learn how to create Connections with Intention!
Imagine having a relationship where you feel:
Appreciated, Admired, Respected and cared for by your partner
Emotionally safe in having conflict and in sharing vulnerabilities
Trust that you are accepted and loved, flaws and all
Joyful in moments within your marriage and life with relative frequency
Empowered to be your most authentic self every day
Supported in your dreams
Celebrated in your achievements and comforted in your defeats.
Creating a fulfilling and successful marriage may seem impossible, but it is entirely possible with intentional effort. Simply getting married or making promises isn't enough to achieve the kind of relationship you desire. It's crucial to set specific goals with clear intentions and actively work towards them. Often, couples believe they are doing what they should be doing without understanding the reasoning behind their actions. This lack of intentionality can lead to frustrations, conflicts, and resentment within marriages. To avoid this, it's essential to understand your goals, and intentions and how they align with each other. Doing so lets you take control of your life and create an intentional marriage. From my experience as a therapist, I've found that the absence of intentionality is at the core of many marital issues. Without purpose, couples may question the value of their efforts, leading to further complications. Recognizing and addressing problems in your relationship actively rather than pushing them aside is essential.
How do we get a more intentional and purposeful relationship, you ask?
Achieving a healthy relationship requires deliberate effort and dedication. To make this happen, consider investing your time and resources in my Couple Intensive program, Connection with Intention. By collaborating with a qualified couples therapist like me, you can overcome conflicts that revolve around the process of resolving disagreements and focus on addressing your genuine emotions, concerns, and aspirations.
Why Intensive Therapy?
Intensive therapy offers several unique benefits that can significantly enhance the therapeutic process:
1. Deeper Exploration: Intensive therapy allows us to delve deeper into your concerns and challenges, providing more time for in-depth exploration and healing.
2. Faster Progress: With concentrated sessions over four days, clients often experience faster and more substantial progress, addressing issues more effectively.
3. Increased Focus: The extended time together allows us to maintain a more concentrated focus on your therapeutic goals, leading to greater insight and personal transformation.
4. Immediate Integration: By spending concentrated time together, you can immediately apply the insights and tools gained during therapy to your daily life.
Listen to understand instead of listening to respond results in the ability to validate.
Love is a powerful force that deserves nurturing and exploration. To help couples reignite their connection and discover new depths of intimacy, we are thrilled to announce, Just Breathe: A Couples Therapy and Breathwork Retreat, set amidst the breathtaking landscapes of Maui. This immersive experience promises to be a life-changing adventure, creating lasting memories and fostering a stronger bond for couples seeking to enhance their relationship.
a few of my
Additional Offerings
Learn. Practice. Master
Couples Counseling
Creating a healthy, long-term relationship where you deeply love your partner doesn’t happen by accident, it takes intentional efforts from both members of the couple. Relationships are like working out, you do not turn into a body builder after your first workout and you are not going to have all your relationship problems solved by the end of your first couples counseling session. It takes practice, as well as, consistent effort and energy so that today you will be better then yesterday and tomorrow you will be better then today.
Couples Therapy Intensives Live and Direct from Maui.
And Baby Makes Three
Pre and Post Baby Therapy
We allocate time to engage in conversations about role allocation, managing sleep patterns, resolving conflicts, defining parenting approaches, and, most significantly, strategies for maintaining your connection as a couple. These discussions before the arrival of your baby are crucial because once your little one is here, you may find yourselves navigating survival mode.
I am passionate about teaching other's how to love themselves so they can love another.
hello
My name is Beth
SHE/HER
I am a conflict navigator, empathy provider and helpful mediator. I am funny, loving, anxious, passionate and I am really good at having double standards for people in my life (poor Charlie)…. I am also a mother, a daughter, a wife and a friend. I got sober in 2018 (mom wine culture is real) which lead me into an incredible new way of showing up in this world and in my relationships.
